Emily Hall stares at her Facebook message. She begins to shake uncontrollably, repeatedly reading the message as tears form in her eyes.
‘Are your parents Chris and Judy?’
“Right then I realized who it was. I have never felt so empty and scared inside before in my life,” Hall said. “At first I could not believe it, I didn’t know how anything would turn out.”
The message was from Jamie-Anne Davis; Hall’s biological mother.
The junior decided not to reply to the message that night. Instead she turned to two friends for advice. Hall knew that talking about her birth mother was a sensitive subject so to avoid making her mother cry Hall waited to tell her parents about the message.
“I was scared of what their reaction would be and that they would say I would not be able to talk to her,” Hall said.
The next day at school Hall was unable to hold back the tears. She burst into tears in the middle of the hallway while heading back to her art class. An abundance of questions filled her mind. Should she reply back? When should she tell her parents? Why is this happening to her?
“I doubt I’ve ever cried that much before,” Hall said. “It all set in that this was actually happening. I was scared because I didn’t know what kind of person she would be,”
Unable to focus, Hall decided not to play in the three soccer games. Instead she concentrated on sorting out all of her questions. Hall replied to her birth mother’s message and talked to her adoptive parents about the situation. She believes finding out the truth has mentally made her a stronger person and was surprised with how well the experience has been.
“I love my mom more than I ever imagined I would. Hearing how I’m so much like her brightens my day,” Hall said. “I’m proud to admit that I’m adopted and have two families. I couldn’t be happier.”
Since kindergarten Hall has known she was adopted. She had received birthday cards and minimal information about her birth parents. She knows she has two half-siblings, Dylan and Storm and she knows her biological father’s name is Todd Haught.
“Being an only child gives you a lot of time to yourself to think about everything,” Hall said. “I had always wondered what it would be like to meet my family but never thought too hard since I love the life I have now.”
During the summer Hall visited Jamie-Ann Davis and her two siblings with her mother, Judy. While at their house in Franklin, Ohio, Hall went out to places with her brother, sister and their friends. Without the connection from Facebook, Hall would not have met her mother until she was 18. However because of this experience, Hall advises anyone who is contacted on Facebook to be careful.
“The experience definitely changed my life completely around,” Hall said. “It could be scary at first but over time it gets better.”
Kayla Stallings • Nov 30, 2010 at 1:32 pm
It’s always refreshing when I hear a story about the good that Facebook can bring, because I always hear how much drama and confusion comes from it. More importantly, I’m happy for Emily and I hope only the best for her in her life. 🙂
Kaylee Speer • Nov 30, 2010 at 1:26 pm
Wow i think thats crazy that someone could find someone that easy on facebook! Also that has to so exciting to meet her mom! Good for her!(:
James Bui • Nov 30, 2010 at 11:58 am
The Internet is so amazing and works in such mysterious ways. Its so weird how that could happen.
Alexandria Barrett • Nov 29, 2010 at 9:02 am
Fabook is such a great networking device, you never know who’ll you meet on there. It was great that she met her biological mother and had a wonderful experience meeting her and other family members. I’m glad that she now has other siblings that she can contact when she just wants a good laugh.
Kimberly Camacho • Nov 29, 2010 at 8:40 am
This is such a sweet story. I think it’s great that this happened right before the holidays, when family matters the most.
Josephine • Nov 29, 2010 at 8:38 am
I think its great that shes connected with her mother. I have recently been connected with my cousin, who was also adopted. My grandma and uncle always had pictures of her around the house, and she was only a year older than me, so i really wanted to meet her. My uncle gave me some of her information and i found her on facebook. Turns out shes lives close by and we get along great!